Book of John, Chapter 4
The Pharisees heard that Jesus was gaining and baptizing more disciples than John, although in fact it was not Jesus who baptized, but his disciples. When the Lord learned of this, he left Judea and went back once more to Galilee.
Now he had to go through Samaria. So he came to a town in Samaria called Sychar, near the plot of ground Jacob had given to his son Joseph. Jacob’s well was there, and Jesus, tired as he was from the journey, sat down by the well. It was about the sixth hour.
When a Samaritan woman came to draw water, Jesus said to her, “Will you give me a drink?” (His disciples had gone into the town to buy food.)
The Samaritan woman said to him, “You are a Jew and I am a Samaritan woman. How can you ask me for a drink?” (For Jews do not associate with Samaritans).
Jesus answered her, “If you knew the gift of God and who it is that asks you for a drink, you would have asked him and he would have given you living water.”
“Sir,” the woman said, “you have nothing to draw with and the well is deep. Where can you get this living water? Are you greater than our father Jacob, who gave us the well and drank from it himself, as did also his sons and his flocks and herds?”
Jesus answered, “Everyone who drinks this water will be thirsty again, but whoever drinks the water I give him will never thirst. Indeed, the water I give him will become in him a spring of water welling up to eternal life.”
The woman said to him, “Sir, give me this water so that I won’t get thirsty and have to keep coming here to draw water.”
He told her, “Go, call your husband and come back.”
“I have no husband,” she replied.
Jesus said to her, “You are right when you say you have no husband. The fact is, you have had five husbands, and the man you now have is not your husband. What you have just said is quite true.”
“Sir,” the woman said, “I can see that you are a prophet. Our fathers worshiped on this mountain, but you Jews claim that the place where we must worship is in Jerusalem.”
Jesus declared, “Believe me, woman, a time is coming when you will worship the Father neither on this mountain nor in Jerusalem. You Samaritans worship what you do not know; we worship what we do know, for salvation is from the Jews. Yet a time is coming and has now come when the true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth, for they are the kind of worshipers the Father seeks. God is spirit, and his worshipers must worship in spirit and in truth.”
The woman said, “I know that Messiah” (called Christ) “is coming. When he comes, he will explain everything to us.”
Then Jesus declared, “I who speak to you am he.”
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Today, I saw an interview on a PBS show with the great actor, Michael Caine. He has just made a new film that deals with many transcendent questions about life and living, death and dying, youth and old age. Caine, who is 76, had a very pleasant discourse with the interviewer about why he is certain that God exists. Caine said that he knows that God exists because his life otherwise would make no sense. Born into a poor family in Great Britain, he lived among the struggling, cockneyed, working classes in England and the idea that someone from that background could go on to such international fame and fortune would have seemed an outlandish aspiration when he was a child.
I don’t know much about Caine’s personal life, but I do know that he seems to have a pretty fair idea at age 76 of who he is. In our 2009 celebrity culture, it’s not often that celebrities seem to know who they are. In fact, in 2009 it is unusual for most people to even want to ponder that question.
“What difference does it make ‘who I am’?” I can hear a young person responding. “I’ve got a cell phone, a game cube, a Blackberry, a sexual partner, plenty of time to party.
What else is there to know about me?”
When I was a young man, I really didn’t anticipate this era coming. In my generation, the Baby Boom generation, our own “youth culture” reflected a search for identity and a search to understand our place in the world. This is why the music of that period is, ironically, enjoyed by many young people today. They know that their own culture is shallow and that most of the music of 2009-ish culture is intellectually and spiritually unsatisfying.
One of the more famous music groups of the era in which I grew up was the English group, “The Who.” One of their more popular songs had the title, “Who are you?” Yes, they were young at the time and they felt that this was a question well worth asking.
So many people I know apparently believe that the answer to that question in their own lives is “I am what I do.” This is why you often hear one person asking another person upon meeting, “What’s your profession?’ instead of “who are you, really?” For many people, if they were to have their work stripped away from them, what would they have left of a self-image? Who would they then be?
The Scripture passage above is one of my favorite discourses in the Bible for many reasons. But the primary reason I love this passage is that it tells us: (1). Who Jesus Christ is; and (2). How He sees us and how he wants us to see ourselves in Him.
Just the fact that Jesus took the time to talk to a Samaritan woman tells a story in itself. Jesus was a Jew and the woman was a Samaritan - a class of people looked down upon by Jews. But the social status of this woman meant absolutely nothing to Jesus. He viewed her as a child of the Living God, a human soul, a person of great value.
Just the fact that Jesus took time to talk to any woman tells a story. Women in Jesus’ time and culture were treated by most men as second-class citizens. If the Biblical writers had wanted to created this story when it didn’t exist, they would not have written about Jesus having such a conversation with a woman.
The episode opens with Jesus asking this woman for a drink of water. This was His way of making the woman understand that He wanted to talk with her and get to know her. A Jewish holy man would have never stooped to asking a Samaritan woman for a drink of water.
It also opens up the way for Jesus to talk to the woman about truly spiritually transcendent subject matter. Using the metaphor of water welling up to eternal life, He explained to her how that His very Presence contains spiritual life and refreshment of the soul and spirit. And, more important, that the “water” which is Jesus’ Holy Presence is what she (and we) need to drink of in order to have eternal life.
Then, this Scripture account takes us to the “who are you?” part of the discourse. Jesus tells the woman to go tell her husband about what she has just heard and she responds that she has no husband. She is trying to cover up the true condition of her life and of her heart. Very probably, she hoped the conversation would end at that point.
But Jesus essentially “reads her mail” and tells her all about the sordid life she had been trying to hide from Him, the Son of God. But what Jesus had to say goes beyond the sinful life she had been leading. Jesus was essentially saying to that woman (and to every human being who would come after her) that there is nothing we can hide from Him. He sees everything and knows everything about us. We can posture and cover up and try to pretend we are someone who we are not. And, in many cases, we can fool other people.
But, we can never fool God.
The most powerful and amazing part of this discussion occurs at the end, when Jesus answers the woman in the affirmative that He is the long-awaited Messiah and the Christ.
So, now comes the original question posed by this column I am writing. How does one discover who he or she really is?
First of all, by coming to know God. Secondly, by realizing that what we do is not who we are. There is certainly a value in work and in what we do with our hands, but it is of limited value in light of our certain physical deaths and the reality of a looming eternity.
Thirdly, we discover who we really are by letting God strip away our “fakeness” and our pretentiousness and our covering-up - in order to free us to be people created in His Likeness whose lives are characterized by loving and caring for others and of loving God with our whole hearts, minds, spirits.
Who are you? Maybe today is the day to start asking yourself - and God - for answers to that eternally all-important question……